Have you ever seen the movie ‘Milk Money’? It’s this really cheesy 90’s film where these young boys want to see a naked woman for the first time, so they pay a prostitute. One of the boys thinks this woman would be a perfect match for his single dad, so he befriends her. His dad falls for her and it’s a romance from there to the end. It has always been one of my favorite movies.
I had my own ‘Milk Money’ moment today. I was on camera and I got pulled into an exclusive room. At first, the client just wanted to chat. Then he began to subtly suggest we find a way to chat offsite. This is directly in violation of my contract with my company. If we solicit experiences off the site, we will be immediately terminated. I was curious though, I had been enjoying talking to him and, like I said, he was being subtle. So we made arrangements for me to meet him on Skype.
Once we were there, he offered me $80 for an hour of my time for what he referred to as a “date”. How could I refuse? That’s twice what I make modeling and I was actually having a nice time. So I started my camera. He kept his camera and mic off and typed me all of his dialog. He is a dom in the BDSM community and wants a sub that he can learn and have new experiences with. This is perfect for me, because that is what I enjoy sexually in my personal life.
Tonight we just talked and learned a little bit more about each other. We stayed up talking for almost two hours. He offered me compensation for my extra time, but I declined because I thought his original offer was incredibly generous and I didn’t mind staying on longer. By the end we both agreed that we had a really nice time and we wanted another “date”. So we made arrangements to meet this Wednesday around midnight.
I like to think of this experience like a “patron” from the Renaissance. A man who pays an artist for her work and for her company. I feel badly taking his money, because I did genuinely enjoy myself, and it didn’t feel like work at all. At the same time, I can’t afford to take a night off from modeling for dating. I’m hoping we can find a balance that works for both of us. I’m going to call him “Tom” in my head, after the dad from ‘Milk Money’.