Tonight I had to learn a lesson that I’m sure all models learn at some point. Lately I have had a lot of clients interested in arranging off screen time with me. As I have mentioned, this is strictly against the rules. As models, we are not allowed to solicit any off screen encounters or to give our personal information to clients. As I have also mentioned, there are clients that find ways around these rules. I have made a couple of posts about my exceptions: Tom is my patron and Vivian and Edward are the BDSM couple that I am interested in arranging a threesome with. I really enjoy them and I do give them a good amount of my time off screen.
However, lately I have had a lot of clients pushing me for my time and I have been a little bit too accommodating. I was up until 0400 this morning chatting with clients for free. Out of the five hours I was online I probably only worked for two. I am already exhausted from my day job and I can’t afford to get any less sleep, especially if I’m not getting paid. I have had a couple of clients say they will pay for my time off screen, but once I’ve made the arrangements and we’re chatting, they don’t follow through.
So, I am putting my foot down. No more off screen time for new clients. I can’t say no to Tom, Edward, or Vivian, because I do really like them and I think it’s actually been good for my mental health to have them, but I am not making arrangements for anyone else.