Tonight I had to learn a lesson that I’m sure all models learn at some point. Lately I have had a lot of clients interested in arranging off screen time with me. As I have mentioned, this is strictly against the rules. As models, we are not allowed to solicit any off screen encounters or to give our personal information to clients. As I have also mentioned, there are clients that find ways around these rules. I have made a couple of posts about my exceptions: Tom is my patron and Vivian and Edward are the BDSM couple that I am interested in arranging a threesome with. I really enjoy them and I do give them a good amount of my time off screen.
However, lately I have had a lot of clients pushing me for my time and I have been a little bit too accommodating. I was up until 0400 this morning chatting with clients for free. Out of the five hours I was online I probably only worked for two. I am already exhausted from my day job and I can’t afford to get any less sleep, especially if I’m not getting paid. I have had a couple of clients say they will pay for my time off screen, but once I’ve made the arrangements and we’re chatting, they don’t follow through.
So, I am putting my foot down. No more off screen time for new clients. I can’t say no to Tom, Edward, or Vivian, because I do really like them and I think it’s actually been good for my mental health to have them, but I am not making arrangements for anyone else.
Tonight I had my first real onscreen orgasm. It is hard for me climax in the best environment (ie bottle of wine, lights off, my own bed, lesbian porn) and it is even harder with the pressure of doing it when asked and on camera. So up to this point I have had to fake it every time a client has asked me. Thus far no one has noticed, but I will admit it’s a little frustrating for me to get close, then have to fake it, and then have to get dressed and get ready for the next show. So for me to climax onscreen during a show was a big deal and a bit of relief.
In my bio on my company’s website, one of the things I have listed in my interests is threesomes. I have never been in one but I honestly really want to try it. I am bi and the idea of being in a threesome with a man and woman is a huge turn on for me. I have recently found clients that are a couple and they are very much into the idea of being in a threesome with me. For the sake of privacy I will call them Edward and Vivian, from ‘Pretty Woman’. They are a BDSM couple where he is always dom. They have discussed letting her be dom with me though, if we were to get together. Usually I talk to one of them at a time (I guess it’s possible it’s just one person leading me on, but I have no way to tell) but every once in awhile they will be on together and will pay for a show.
Tonight I was just talking with Edward, because Vivian is out of town. He told me they had been talking about me a lot and they really want to meet up. They don’t live very far from me, but I have told them I’m not allowed to give out my personal information to clients. He said he understood but he would try sending me a message with his information (I never received it, and this is not the first time, so I’m thinking my company screens my messages for personal information).
Edward really wanted to give me an idea of the kind of thing that I could expect if I were to meet up with them. He told me that Vivian is really attracted to me also, but because he is the dom he gets to have me first. He described having her watch as he had his way with me and then letting her have me afterwards. He wanted to watch me masturbate as he described these things to me and it was a huge turn on for me. I actually orgasmed when he told me she wanted to have a turn with me.
I really like this couple and I think it would be so much fun to meet up with them. I just don’t know how to arrange it and I am not totally convinced it would be safe. I honestly do want to have a threesome experience, but I have no idea how to find it for myself. I’ve been hoping my company would set up something for me in one of the videos they produce, but I haven’t heard anything. Maybe I will just keep thinking about Edward and Vivian and hopefully something will work out.
Tonight I had my first opportunity to try being a dom. I am always sub; it’s the part I most enjoy and it’s the part I’m best at. But tonight I had a client that wanted me to talk him through a kidnapping fantasy where I was the kidnapper. It was a lot of fun!
My online persona is a nurse. I’m not a nurse in real life but I do work in the medical field and I have the knowledge to pass for one. So keep in mind that is what this client was expecting.
He is in the military and is living on base, so he wanted me to describe how I would kidnap him from the base and have my way with him. It went something like this:
I am a nurse who was contracted by the military to fill in on base when their staff nurses are out sick. I am administering flu shots and I notice him as soon as he walks in the room. I am immediately attracted to him, but I have no idea how to tell him. So I come up with a plan to kidnap him and have him all to myself. When he sits down for his flu shot I don’t draw up the vaccine, instead I draw up a dose of sedative. I administer the sedative and he has just enough time to realize what’s going on, so I have to cover his mouth with my hand as he starts to pass out.
When he wakes up he is bound and gagged in another part of the base where no one will find us. I loosen his gag so that we can talk and that I can convince him he wants to be with me voluntarily. I undo his pants so that I can convince him. He tells me that he’s liked me all along and that I never needed to kidnap him. So I undo his bonds. But he turns the tables on me and ties me up and gags me. Then he can do whatever he wants to me.
I absolutely loved this experience. I really liked getting to try out being a dom and the client was incredibly sweet. It was also just a fun scenario to act out. He is in the military and is stationed overseas, so that added an element of excitement and romance to it. I hope he stays safe.
I have officially been a webcam model for over a week now. It’s already been a crazy experience. I’ve done so many new things and learned a lot about what’s out there.
I have been doing 18 hours a day at my regular job and then about two hours a night on the webcam, so I am exhausted. Today is my day off from my regular job though, so I am catching up on sleep and chores and time with my dogs. I am also going to do yoga in the park in the sunshine, which I am really excited about. I will probably model tonight, but maybe I won’t do it for very long and I will go to bed early.
I think this will be a sustainable way for me to make a living. I am tired, but it isn’t strenuous and the flexible hours make it so I can work as much as I want whenever I want. I just hope I don’t get burned out. My sexuality is a big part of who I am. I don’t want to do so much on the webcam that I can’t enjoy sex in real life, when the opportunity presents itself.
Tonight I did my first fetish show. It was something I never could have imagined and nothing like what I expected when I started modeling.
Tonight I had a client ask me if I would take a bath for him. This is not that unusual and honestly, the idea of getting paid to take a bath is incredibly appealing. My muscles are always so sore and tired from my day job. So I said yes and he took me into an exclusive room. He told me to run the bath and put on a swim suit. I did both and then we just chatted while the bath ran.
That’s when it became clear this wasn’t going to be a typical bath show. He told me to make the water cold. Then he explained what he was into was dunking. A Dunk Tank fetish. Think of a dunk tank at a carnival, where the person sits on the platform and people throw things at a target that makes them fall into a tank of water. That was this client’s fantasy. He asked me to talk dirty to him as if I was on the platform and he was a person trying to dunk me. Then he had me sit on the edge of the tub. He had me get in, then dunk my head under the water and come up spluttering and gasping for air. He had me repeat this several times, looking at the camera when I came up for air. After a couple of times, he asked that I take my top off. After a couple more, he asked me to take my bottoms off. Then he dunked me once more before he logged off.
Overall it was not a bad experience, and I feel like it was relatively tame. He paid for a long session and he tipped me well afterwards. I find it fascinating the kinds of things people are into and I am so curious as to what it is about dunking that turns this client on. It will be interesting to see what other kinds of things people ask me to do. What if I discover I have a fetish?
Have you ever seen the movie ‘Milk Money’? It’s this really cheesy 90’s film where these young boys want to see a naked woman for the first time, so they pay a prostitute. One of the boys thinks this woman would be a perfect match for his single dad, so he befriends her. His dad falls for her and it’s a romance from there to the end. It has always been one of my favorite movies.
I had my own ‘Milk Money’ moment today. I was on camera and I got pulled into an exclusive room. At first, the client just wanted to chat. Then he began to subtly suggest we find a way to chat offsite. This is directly in violation of my contract with my company. If we solicit experiences off the site, we will be immediately terminated. I was curious though, I had been enjoying talking to him and, like I said, he was being subtle. So we made arrangements for me to meet him on Skype.
Once we were there, he offered me $80 for an hour of my time for what he referred to as a “date”. How could I refuse? That’s twice what I make modeling and I was actually having a nice time. So I started my camera. He kept his camera and mic off and typed me all of his dialog. He is a dom in the BDSM community and wants a sub that he can learn and have new experiences with. This is perfect for me, because that is what I enjoy sexually in my personal life.
Tonight we just talked and learned a little bit more about each other. We stayed up talking for almost two hours. He offered me compensation for my extra time, but I declined because I thought his original offer was incredibly generous and I didn’t mind staying on longer. By the end we both agreed that we had a really nice time and we wanted another “date”. So we made arrangements to meet this Wednesday around midnight.
I like to think of this experience like a “patron” from the Renaissance. A man who pays an artist for her work and for her company. I feel badly taking his money, because I did genuinely enjoy myself, and it didn’t feel like work at all. At the same time, I can’t afford to take a night off from modeling for dating. I’m hoping we can find a balance that works for both of us. I’m going to call him “Tom” in my head, after the dad from ‘Milk Money’.
Today I realized something that I didn’t consider when I started modeling. The whole reason I started doing this was to supplement my income enough to pay my bills. But what do I do when I have my period? Do I take a week off of modeling? I can’t really afford to do that. Do I try to find clients that are into a blood bath? Somehow I don’t think there are very many of them, and trying to find them would take time away from modeling. Or do I find a way to make it seem like I’m not on my period?
This is a challenge. First, I always have a horrible acne breakout around the time I start menstruating. Second, there’s the associated bloating, cramping, and exhaustion. And finally, of course, the technical difficulty of concealing all the blood. There’s foundation for the acne and supplements for the rest, but my solution for the blood is to wear a cup. For those not familiar, there are these little rubber cups for women that sit up inside the vagina. I’ve been wearing one during my period for several months because I think it’s more convenient and it’s better for the environment than pads and tampons. So I thought to myself, why not just keep the cup in and proceed as if nothing has changed?
This worked very well at first. As long as all anyone asked was that I strip or rub my clit, everything was fine. Then I was asked to do penetration with one of my toys. I thought maybe if I was careful I could make it seem like I was going deep, but keep from dislodging my cup. The client was insistent that I go deeper, so I tried, and that’s when I had what I referred to as a “wardrobe malfunction”. Blood everywhere.
So I’m still trying to find a good solution to this problem. Maybe I should revisit the idea of trying to find clients that are into that kind of thing.